While the sky cracked open and poured on a Monday night, I was receiving life from an International Square. One of my fave girls was in town from London and we chopped it up. We discussed everything from Brexit, shoes, Netflix, Being Mary Jane, terrible plastic surgery, institutionalized racism, Interracial marriages, Nigerian fashion and of course, men.
I'm known to want you to embrace your "hoe". Do whatever it is you want to do, with whomever you want, at all times; and what not. So I was straight gleeful when Lisa dropped a verse on me: "Speak to your Jezebel Spirit"; I put my drink down, blinked and knew immediately I needed to take notes.
We need to invoke our Jezebel Spirits!
Muhahahahaaahaaaaa
We need to get out there and enjoy ourselves. That doesn't HAVE to be sexual. But we need to open ourselves up to the opportunities to get what it is we want. Is it the new job? New home? Go for it. You need to invoke that confidence in yourself to go after it.
You know what? Maybe it IS a man. Maybe you're at that place in life where you want a partner. Get out there and see what the market is. We tend to go on a date with that one guy we REALLY like and boom, put all the eggs in that basket. I say, set up a couple more with other guys. Test the waters before you hang it up so quickly. Be a social butterfly. I want you to look deep inside yourself and figure out what makes you tick. What brings out the sensual femininity in you. Is it a great hair day? A sick pair of pumps? That sundress that leaves a little to the imagination but hugs all the right curves? Is it a scent? A song? What is absolutely necessary for your seance?
For me? My environment needs to be on point. I want a clean, made up bed. I need the room to smell clean. I like dark lace that doesn't hide my intentions. My Jezebel writhes to life in a softly lit room and mood music. Think Sade, 90s R&B, and a little Weeknd before he couldn't feel his face.
A man once told me, "You are so sexy and you really have no clue". I got a little shy but then realized it was a compliment, but then wait? How do I not know it? I really had to think about that for a bit. I don't wear my sexuality on my sleeve. I'm NOT "walking sex"; men don't fall to their knees at the mere sight of me. It doesn't happen that way. However, when I open up...I'm OPEN (AAAOOOW!); I digress. I took that experience and expanded on it. I bought new lingerie (even if there wasn't anyone to wear it for, I bought it for ME) I kept my bedroom clean and neat. I brought the lights down. I intentionally tried to make myself feel sexy and really digest what that feeling was. Without realizing it, I was invoking my Jezebel spirit. I held my seance and she came through! I made contact. I try to really think about what makes me feel powerful in my body. Once you pinpoint what this is, you can control it. You can call it up whenever you want. Let that spirit through because as a woman...it's so special. We are such a beautiful form. We are living art.
Jezzy is here.
Men will start wars over us, they will kill each other over us. We tame beasts and are what make THEM complete, yet we don't believe it ourselves. Take the time to speak to Jezzy, she wants to be a part of the world and you should let her because she really wants you to be happy.
What do you ladies need for your seance? How do you call upon Jezzy and invite her over for a spell?
Let me know!
xoSquared